Things We've Learned ***EDITED***

WHOA another bummer of a post...

In light of the fact that ANYONE could be reading this, it's been pulled. 

In case you're wondering what the words of wisdom were, here it is in a nutshell:

1- Shorter engagements are sometimes more manageable.

2- Keep it as simple as possible to avoid getting in over your head.

3- I'm adding this one now... enjoy it, you only get to plan your wedding once in your life (hopefully)!  =)